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Hello, my name is keli
Author, Sociologist, Feminist Theorist, and Entrepreneur
Welcome to the official site of "The Femininity Doctor"! I examine Feminism's impact on women, families, and society, helping women reclaim their femininity to heal, marry, and start families.
Reclaiming femininity, healing hearts, and building families
Marriage and Family Professional, Author, Sociologist, Feminist Scholar
Keli Pitts is dedicated to addressing the forces attacking femininity, masculinity, and the family. She believes there is a gender war in the American West, and by helping women embrace their true, authentic selves, society can experience a transformative shift. True freedom, she asserts, lies in honoring the distinct role women play in the world, celebrating their unique design and purpose.
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"I do want to encourage you to buy the books and courses. Just invest in yourself. It's like something I've never experienced."
- Tiffany B.
Reclaim your femininity through
these core pillars
Beauty
Beauty means the quality of being attractive and pleasing to look at. Independent of the industry itself, women were always concerned with their appearance. They took pride in how they presented themselves because society promoted loveliness and decency. Women were especially concerned with their beauty when they wanted to be taken seriously for courtship and marriage. Since the late 60s, more women have become concerned with masculine sectors. As a result beauty and being concerned with the outer appearance has gained a negative connotation. Women need to know they aren't shallow for loving and embracing beauty as long as their beauty doesn't come from things like their clothes, hair, and makeup. Their true beauty should come from their inner spirit.
Charity
Charity is a favorite of Keli's because she believes it speaks to the true nature of a woman, which is to be selfless. Giving to others who cannot give back to you shows up in major religious texts and Victorian Morality, something that once governed the West. If a woman had a husband, he was expected to give his money to the poor. The woman herself was expected to give more of her time and heart to the needy. Keli believes charity is essential to creating more soft and compassionate women.
Domesticity
In the late 60s, a few very important things shifted society forever. Women entered into the labor force at increasing numbers, The Sexual Revolution gained a major foothold in The American West, and women became more invested in things that were inherently masculine. As a result of women gaining newfound freedom, the domestic sphere became of less interest. Several family scholars mark this as the beginning of the family decline. Today, The American West has more professional women, but they aren't as strong at home and family life. The glamourization of the labor force, independence, and hookup culture led to women being weaker in areas like cooking, proper hostessing, and creating structurally sound fiscal bases. Keli believes creating stronger domestic women will definitely help to see a special up trend in femininity, and ultimately the family.
Family
Despite the modern message that is overtaking society today, women aren't non aspirational or lazy for being family-oriented. Singlehood and hookup culture is mass promoted today, but it's not fulfilling long-term. In fact, studies show married mothers are the happiest women in the world. Getting married, having children, and being of service to members of extended families keeps women in community and connection. It provides them with essential life skills and protections that are necessary to becoming the best versions of themselves.
Identity
Identity is the essence of understanding who you are at your core. In a world that constantly pushes women to redefine themselves based on external expectations, it’s easy to lose sight of one’s true self. Keli believes a woman’s identity should not be shaped by trends or societal pressure but rather by her innate nature and values. When women embrace their unique strengths, personality, and purpose, they step into a confidence that radiates. A strong sense of identity anchors a woman in her femininity and helps her navigate life with authenticity and grace.
Piety
Piety is about devotion—whether to faith, values, or the principles that guide a meaningful life. In a culture that often dismisses traditional spirituality, Keli encourages women to rediscover the joy and grounding that come from a connection to something greater than themselves. Historically, piety has been a cornerstone of feminine strength, offering clarity, purpose, and resilience. Whether through faith or moral principles, cultivating piety is a way to live intentionally and remain rooted in values that truly matter.
Relationships
Relationships are the lifeblood of a woman’s world. From friendships and family bonds to romantic partnerships, meaningful connections allow women to thrive. Yet, modern ideologies often pit men and women against one another, creating a disconnect that’s hard to bridge. Keli emphasizes the importance of building respectful, nurturing relationships with others, particularly with masculine partners. These relationships are not about competition but collaboration. A strong relationship helps women experience love, companionship, and growth, reminding them of the beauty in unity and mutual understanding.
Wellness
Wellness is not just about physical health—it’s about the harmony of mind, body, and soul. Women are often told to strive for success at the expense of their well-being, leading to burnout and dissatisfaction. Keli advocates for a holistic approach to wellness that includes mental clarity, emotional balance, spiritual grounding, and physical vitality. By prioritizing wellness, women can show up as their best selves, embracing their femininity with energy, joy, and peace.
Empower your journey with Feminine Core courses
The Fundamentals Course
Discover the essential principles of marriage, family, and personal empowerment with The Fundamentals Course. This course offers valuable insights into understanding and embracing your true identity, fostering healthy relationships, and building a strong foundation for lasting family bonds.
The Expanded Course
Dive deeper into the complexities of marriage, family dynamics, and personal growth with The Expanded Course. Gain advanced knowledge and practical strategies to navigate challenges, strengthen relationships, and create a fulfilling, harmonious family life.
My Books
Doctor's Orders
A Guide for Helping Modern Women Reclaim Their Femininity for Good
This is my first completed book, now available on Amazon. In "Doctor's Orders," I explore how femininity and family dynamics have shifted in today’s world and offer insights for women who want to reconnect with their true nature.
Beating Heart
This book is incredibly close to my heart, but it’s not available on any platforms just yet. If you’d like to read it, feel free to reach out directly, and I’d be happy to provide a copy.
The Problem Has Found a Name
This is my next big project, and I’m currently diving into research and writing. It’s a book that tackles the challenges facing femininity, masculinity, and family in the modern world.
If you'd like to support this endeavor, you can donate to help bring this vision to life. Every contribution means the world to me!
Feminine Essence Retreat!
Escape the rush of everyday life and embrace a weekend of renewal and growth at our exclusive retreat, Womanly in Wine Country 2025. Set against the lush vineyards and serene landscapes of Napa Valley, this unforgettable experience is designed to help women rediscover their feminine essence, build meaningful connections, and walk away inspired to live with intention and grace.
"I attended The Femininity Doctor's retreat in Mexico last spring and all I can say is wow!The healing. The vulnerability. The sisterhood. Everything was just wow!"
-Sandra M.
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